Interview with Ali Ingersoll
Every week, we meet with audience members with disabilities who are willing to come forward and share a little bit about their own personal journey and experiences, attending live, in-person, or virtual speaking or training events. Through their unique and generous perspectives, speakers, trainers, facilitators, and other communication professionals can hopefully learn about some of the things that they do well, but also (and maybe more importantly) about some of the things they could improve to provide an experience that is truly inclusive of everyone.
Meet Ali, an audience member who is quadriplegic
So, without further ado, let’s dive right into this week’s interview with Ali Ingersoll (she/her). Ali is quadriplegic and a lifetime wheelchair user, and comes to us from North Carolina, USA.
Introductions
QUESTION 01 Can you tell us a bit about yourself, and how your disability might impact your experience, as someone who attends live in-person and virtual events?
I was injured in a shallow water diving accident in 2010 in my home in the Bahamas, leaving me a C6 complete quadriplegic and lifetime wheelchair user. I spent the first 6 years after my injury in and out of hospitals with a tremendous number of secondary complications and multiple surgeries. I learned to advocate for myself by fighting health insurance companies for medically necessary equipment I needed to not only survive in my life, but to thrive.
I have worked full-time as a technical analysis day trader and transitioned careers to becoming a disability strategy consultant for corporations around the globe in addition to continuing my advocacy fight with health insurance companies by partnering with people and organizations nationwide. I also now focus on public speaking and topics on disability inclusion in the corporate workplace, health insurance advocacy, and normalizing many uncomfortable topics around disability with dark humor and determination.
I focus much of my time on disability employment these days, as there is still so much stigma and discrimination focused around people with disabilities. Diversity, Equity and Inclusion (DEI) is a hot topic in employment at the moment, but disability is simply getting left behind. I offer people I work with perspective shifts in their thinking in addition to helping them create targeted disability DEI roadmap strategies for more inclusive work within different industries.
Things that ruin the experience
QUESTION 02 Thinking back on some of your experiences attending in-person or virtual events, what are some of the worst things speakers, trainers, and other communication experts can do to ruin your experience as an attendee?
Not doing their homework. If you’re going to chat on a topic, you need to know your material. Do your research.
Speaking in a very dry manner. Information is great, but you also need to learn to tell a story behind whatever material you are presenting on.
Lack of humor. Unfortunately, many people in the disability community are still very much misunderstood by the able-bodied population. While it is not our job, as the disabled community, to make other people feel comfortable with our disabilities, I do find that bringing the bit of humor into normalizing uncomfortable topics that people do not want to approach helps ease the audience to be more receptive to what you are chatting about.
Lack of interaction. I always find it incredibly engaging, and I find myself remembering in-person or virtual events when speakers are extremely interactive with the audience. This may involve asking questions, polling the audience, etc.
Things that make a positive impact
QUESTION 03 Can you share some of the great things speakers, trainers, and other communication experts sometimes do that make a positive impact on your ability to fully enjoy your in-person or virtual event experiences?
When I am truly captivated by a great speaker, I find myself extremely motivated to continue my own personal work. I feel a sense of renewed passion and completely uplifted if the content is engaging. Great speakers also find amazing ways to build you up, even if a topic can be challenging. Taking a very serious topic and finding a strategy to leave your audience to take action after you speak is what I consider a successful presentation.
Sharing a piece of advice
QUESTION 04 If you had one piece of advice to give speakers, trainers, and other communication experts, so their content became more inclusive of people who have disabilities, what would it be?
Whenever I hear a speaker chatting on the topic of disability, on whatever the content may be, I find many speakers use the lens of relating to a specific disability while excluding other disabilities. Whether that be mobility impairments, blind, deaf/hard of hearing, neurodiversity, etc. — I think it’s pertinent to make sure to not only make a presentation inclusive to all people with disabilities, but to make sure the message is relatable to the broader disability community as well.
Wrapping up
QUESTION 05 Thank you for sharing some of your insights with us today. As we wrap up our conversation, is there anything that you’d like to add, such as another thought, another piece of advice, another perspective, etc.?
Perspective shift. As human beings we, all too often, find ourselves getting stuck within our own circle of people, interests, opinions, and perspectives. I enjoy offering new perspectives on a variety of topics, not just disability, to offer people the opportunity to critically think about their own lives as it relates to thinking outside of the box on a variety of issues. Especially in the United States, we are so comfortable with our lifestyle that we often neglect looking beyond our borders.
Human kindness and paying it forward. These are two things I live by each and every day that I try to help in part on others to broaden their horizons within their own lives.
Connect with our guest on social
Interested in knowing more about our guest this week? You can follow Ali on LinkedIn, or check out her website at QuirkyQuad.com.
About Denis Boudreau
Founder and Chief Inclusion Officer at InklusivComm, Denis has taken his inclusive communication expertise to hundreds of organizations around the world. Through workshops, counsel, and training, Denis has, to this day, empowered tens of thousands of busy professionals with powerful tools to bridge the gaps that can potentially exclude up to 40% of their audience members, based on disabilities, ageing, and other technical challenges.